It doesn’t matter what he wants

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been taking Zensual Flow. It’s a mix of dance, yoga, and sensuality and it’s AMAZING!!! The sexy chair routine we’re learning has been so empowering.

Women are beautiful. All Women! I love celebrating being a woman and this class helps me do that once a week. 

The most empowering thing I heard my teacher say was ” you dance for you, not for him…Your body is a gift and you move it as such“. I was literally jumping up and down and clapping with excitement because this is exactly how I feel about dating.

Dating is your gift and guess what? Dating is NOT about the man. 

Dating is about you! It’s always about you.

This is why what he wants doesn’t matter. You don’t need to be concerned about what he wants. It’s about what you want. It’s about understanding the impact of your wants so that you are magnetic.

You only have to be concerned with what you want from your soul level and allow yourself to have it.

Knowing what you want is magnetic.

The most underrated personality trait is knowing what you want. It’s completely overlooked but it’s the most valuable thing you can possess. 

When you know what you want, your words are magnetic, your actions are magnetic which expands your magnetism to attract men you don’t even know. Like attracts like. 

If you’ve been in previous relationships with men that came across as knowing what they wanted but then later they were wishy-washy, you didn’t attract them on accident. There was a lesson for you to know the impact of knowing what you want. 

Clarify, step 2 of my Self Emotional Empowerment method, is where I guide you to uncover what you want, what you REALLY want! Fear of change, judgment, and rejection will override what your wants. Being 100% clear on this is your internal GPS.

Get your FREE love design session here and turn on your love GPS.

Farrah, I’m your Love Coach

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